Are we riding fences or horses?

Indecisive down the line. Self-doubt. Unable to choose. Unable to commit. Unable to move forward. Unable to stay the course.

Many times when this is happening in your riding, there is a fence riding issue in other areas your life. A decision that you are debating and “teetering” on.

A new job? Sell a home and move? Sell a horse or buy a new one? End or forgive a relationship? Stop drinking or quit sugar? Commit to a program to step up in some area of your life such as physical or emotional health?

This indecisive software running in the background of your life shows up as a lack of trust in yourself to make a plan and move forward! You are hesitant. Holding in. Sucking back. Blocking energy. Spinning around in not being sure how to move forward!

And vice versa. If you are riding like this, you may also then do that in other parts of your life.

What is needed is courage. Faith. Belief in yourself even when you don’t believe. Learning how to make the best decisions, listening to the RIGHT gut instincts and NOT the negative or fear based ones.

Understanding what values, like safety or cheapest, may be driving the wrong decisions. Discovering the most powerful leverage and tools to take off the brakes, to let go and go with the flow, and to just say yes and move forward anyway!

We have to learn these peak performance mental skills. We have to have belief in ourselves and confidence in our abilities to make a decision and get off the fence and just do it. To do the next best thing with the right timing.

We can’t have the right timing if we are in self-doubt. Or fear. Or stuck in a negative mental state driven by bad habits of allowing ourselves to ride fences! Because opportunities come and go, and we need to be able to hop on them and take off!

Is there a chance the bridle path we finally make a decision to choose will be too bumpy and we might fall off on our face? Always show up and perform like a Equestrian Rockstar anyway! Lead with your identity and brand! Do it with unshakeable confidence and courage, learn from it, and use resiliency to get back on the horse!

Ask yourself; am I getting ready to get ready or are I am deciding to bring out the horse, to tack him up, to get on THE HORSE, to command him to move forward, and to enjoy the ride of my life?

Nancy Dye
Breakthrough, Peak Performance Mental Skills Coach
Emotional Strength & Resilience Trainer
Strategic Interventionist

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