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Dear Nancy,
What makes a good coach? Belief in their clients that they can overcome their obstacles!
Here's a 30 second short promo video …(at the bottom of email) using my past/or current clients. And they all struggled with belief, confidence, poor performance, fears, bad falls, heartbreaking defeats or challenging life events ...
Now, when I make blanket statements to people saying I believe in them, of course they think that is just talk because obviously I don't really know them.
Which of course I don't right away.
But actually, the reason I can say I believe in them, and the reason that is true, is because;
1. I believe in the fundamental ability of EVERYONE to be able to grow and transform their lives (OK, serious mental illness issues aside. And that's not you!)
2. I was able to fundamentally and DRAMATICALLY change my own life EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T BELIEVE IN MYSELF! In fact, "my truth" was just the exact opposite!
I absolutely DIDN"T believe in myself or that any one could help me … or that any process would work for ME. Sure, maybe for others, but ...
3. I believe in the techniques and strategist that I used to transform my own life AND I believe in the powerful and unique training I have received from my strategic intervention coaching. (It is rapid and lasting, and It has been proven for millions of people over 3 decades.)
And because of all the proof from all people I have helped over the 30 + years; ages 8 - 70+.
Now, there are some people reading this right now that are thinking, "Oh, but MY issues, and my "story," and my background with life and riding is different from everyone else.
Yes, of course that is true. And that's my favorite part. Because I specialize in being the the WHY guy; why you do what you do (or don't do), and then I am also the RIGHT, MOST POWERFUL solution guy!
Those two things are the magical combination that makes it all work.
That's why reading a book about techniques and strategies only gets you so far! It is just a one-size-fits-all bandage for surface symptoms.
(And whatever is going on with the riding is just the SYMPTOM.)
A deeper, core issue has to shift if you really want lasting transformation in your riding and your life. If you REALLY want to consistently feel empowered and laser focused to execute the details of the ride. It you are really serious about riding at your personal best.
For example, I am SHOCKED at the amount of studies out there on confidence. Really?
Guys, forget all that. It's not that complicated. You don't need years of experience and training and proof in order to show up feeling confident.
That's just your limiting belief!
Session one with me is how to change your state at a snap of a finger! Don't believe it? Keep in mind, I AM a firewalker!
Did I have confidence I could do that when I first showed up for the seminar? No, ARE YOU KIDDING ME? In fact, 9000 of us didn't believe we could walk over 2200+ degrees of hot coals!
And yet, both my son and I walked over the coals at the end of just day one of the seminar. How is that possible? Learning how to control your thoughts and emotions and how to get "in state."
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And the issue isn't confidence anyway. That is just a by product. The real thing that needs to change is your identity.
"We don't get our goals, we get our identity." Tony Robbins
Meaning? Whoever we believe ourselves to be, and whatever beliefs we hold about ourselves, we will always remain consistent with that in our behavior. And that will affect our decisions and our outcomes.
And ultimately our destiny.
So THAT'S the stuff I work with. The REAL "stuff" that really makes a difference. The stuff that really makes us empowered and gives us joy.
This is why most of my customers have already tried coaching with other equestrian sport mental skills coaches. And they have read all the books. And they have all upgraded and bought the expensive, experienced horses, and they have the top trainers.
They have poured a ton of time, money, and effort into this sport.
When all THAT still doesn't work ... then they finally get it.
It's something deeper inside of them that tripping them up. AND they still don't know what it is and/or they still don't have the RIGHT tools and techniques for themselves. Because … everyone is THAT unique!
Finding and figuring out the pieces of the puzzle, figuring out what REALLY drives you ... is a relatively quick process. And then I figure out how to customize the right techniques and strategies that will work with your unique puzzle, story, beliefs, and identity; with your horse, your trainer, and your goals.
Then I teach you how to re-wire your brain.
Listen, I'm NOT a therapist OR a sports psychologist. This isn't about endlessly talking about and staying in the problem.
Coaching is about MOVING FORWARD and learning how to live in the solution.
Neuro-association; everyone is just try to perform with a brain that is hooked up to old, outdated software (that's tied to our "stories", emotions, and automatic/default behavior), so the brain is kinda like "short circuiting.'
Well, while I absolutely suck at REAL technology, I'm EXCEL as the IT guy for riders! We need to update that software so the brain HELPS you to move forward towards success rather than SABOTAGING you.
My Belief Video
Enjoy Your Weekend.
Nancy Dye
Breakthrough Equestrian Mental Skills Coach
Emotional Strength & Resiliency Trainer
Strategic Interventionist
1-561-866-04
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